What is the deal with men? OK... i am not going on the typical "men suck... blah blah blah...", I don't think they do at all, I happen to like men... very much in fact... but i digress; OK... So men have issues with women and their self conscious attitudes towards themselves, and how women are always "hard on themselves" etc, etc...
Here's the deal - In today's society women (most anyway) are self conscious creatures, we worry about our appearance and our size, how we look to men, if these pants really do make us look fat, and about a thousand other thoughts running through our heads all at once in order to feel presentable to the opposite sex... i.e. MEN!
Trust me, you want us this way, because if we didn't feel or act like this, we could all potentially turn out to be either raging bitches who think we are better than anyone... or obese disgusting slobs who could give a rats ass about our appearance because obviously "it doesn't matter"...
OK... so I am guilty of feeling this way, talking this way, and acting this way... I don't like my body, I always feel fat, unattractive and very unwanted... and honestly cannot fathom why someone would even waste their time on me, talking, hitting on, or otherwise?!?! But... Why wouldn't I? I mean really, we try to think positively and feel good about ourselves, yet every other word out of a guys mouth is "Damn... she's hot" or "Oh, that girl looks good!!!"... but they are not talking about me... NO... they are talking TO me, about someone else... whom I feel I am in no comparison and cannot even come close to "keeping up with".
So, here is the dilemma, You (men) want us to stop being so self-conscious, hard on ourselves or otherwise, yet You do not give us any reason to... you are talking about other women's bodies, and how "you'd hit it!" but in no way, shape, or form have given us a reason to feel better about our own... What to do?
Honestly, I would probably feel better about myself if someone just complimented me... truly... just because... not to get in my pants, but just because! All a girl wants is a little attention!
OK... that's my rant for today!!! :)
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I have several female friends and they all have one thing in common. Whenever they are complimented they take it like they have never heard something like that before. Some of them have features that are clearly spectacular, but if the shape of an ass, or how great they look in that sweater comes up they generally believe that men say that about all women. That isn't to say you should be flaunting your best features but take a look at yourself, admit that yeah, I have a pretty face or damn my boobs look great in this bra. When you catch a man sneaking a second look, enjoy the feeling. Men love looking at women, and with few exceptions we will always find something we like.
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